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They made me forget what i was thinking about.

do you see your headmates with color ?

9:44 PM

mi can see colors in my headhead befbefore you ask

9:44 PM

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9:44 PM

if i try to imagine pink, i will see it

9:44 PM

if i try to see my tulpa with pink hair, or my tulpa tries to change his form to pink hair

9:44 PM

it dont change

What about if you instead of trying to imagine them in a way ask them to get that form?

9:46 PM

Like, ask your tulpa to get pink hair, or even give them some hair dye and let them use it?

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

Like, ask your tulpa to get pink hair, or even give them some hair dye and let them use it?

the Second one i havent tried

9:49 PM

but the first one doesnt work

try the second.

its weird because it seems like everyone loses color

Adeus.

its weird because it seems like everyone loses color

Get a magic color wand and use it!

9:51 PM

You CAN imagine color, you just believe it doesnt work.

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

Get a magic color wand and use it!

it worked

9:52 PM

thank you

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

You CAN imagine color, you just believe it doesnt work.

its not that i dont believe it would work

9:52 PM

its that i see color

For imaginary problems just use imaginary solutions!

but its hard to maintain it

hehehe

unless its black and white

thank you

@Adeus. - jump can you borrow the wand to me for a second

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

thank you

@Adeus. - jump can you borrow the wand to me for a second

yes

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

thank you

@Adeus. - jump can you borrow the wand to me for a second

Imagine your own!

Hello. I used to have an account but I got a new one

1:00 AM

I had a tulpa and in looking to revive her

Tewi: Force her the same as when you were creating a tulpa to begin with, just with the intent for it to still be her the same as before instead of an entirely new tulpa. Assuming there was no long-standing drama, it's really as simple as that. (edited)

1:01 AM

Drama you'd have to work out between yourselves, if there was any. (edited)

Yeah

1:15 AM

I made my tulpa in the summer of 2021, and long sorry short, we had our breaks, ups and downs, and now I'm so distracted by life she's more reduced to a voice in my head, but I want to see her more

1:15 AM

Gonna take some work but we're on good terms

Best of luck!

It all started when I had a dream she told me she was my wife when I really started to remember

I'm questioning if my tulpa is actually a tulpa or if im just faking it somehow I'm about 1-2 weeks in from when I first started, and I can already sorta hear my tulpa, but that's only when I'm consciously thinking of him. I'm concerned if I'm just always 'parroting' him instead of letting him think for himself. also, his voice sounds almost exactly like mine, and Im not sure if that's normal? I tried to give him a different voice but it always defaults back to mine. srry if this sounds a little dumb, I'm just very confused rn.

@✩* Jimmy / Grian [🌿🧭] - jump it's all down to practice friendo. New tups need attention in their first days of existing. after a while your brain builds the habit of keeping them around passively

I'm questioning if my tulpa is actually a tulpa or if im just faking it somehow I'm about 1-2 weeks in from when I first started, and I can already sorta hear my tulpa, but that's only when I'm consciously thinking of him. I'm concerned if I'm just always 'parroting' him instead of letting him think for himself. also, his voice sounds almost exactly like mine, and Im not sure if that's normal? I tried to give him a different voice but it always defaults back to mine. srry if this sounds a little dumb, I'm just very confused rn.

@✩* Jimmy / Grian [🌿🧭] - jump ceeate them discord bot, let them tall to people, have their own exoerience, and the separation will build up

✩* Jimmy / Grian [🌿🧭]

I'm questioning if my tulpa is actually a tulpa or if im just faking it somehow I'm about 1-2 weeks in from when I first started, and I can already sorta hear my tulpa, but that's only when I'm consciously thinking of him. I'm concerned if I'm just always 'parroting' him instead of letting him think for himself. also, his voice sounds almost exactly like mine, and Im not sure if that's normal? I tried to give him a different voice but it always defaults back to mine. srry if this sounds a little dumb, I'm just very confused rn.

That's all normal. The more you can accept that they are talking with you, the more they'll be able to talk and develop/become more distinct from you. If you are in general really good with thinking in different voices, your tulpa should be able to use that skill to use a different voice. Can still take practice though ymmv. If you're not already good with different mindvoices, that will make it harder and can take a lot more practice

✩* Jimmy / Grian [🌿🧭]

I'm questioning if my tulpa is actually a tulpa or if im just faking it somehow I'm about 1-2 weeks in from when I first started, and I can already sorta hear my tulpa, but that's only when I'm consciously thinking of him. I'm concerned if I'm just always 'parroting' him instead of letting him think for himself. also, his voice sounds almost exactly like mine, and Im not sure if that's normal? I tried to give him a different voice but it always defaults back to mine. srry if this sounds a little dumb, I'm just very confused rn.

unless you are making a complete effort to parrot the tulpa, you are not parroting it

5:30 PM

as an example, dream characters tend to "operate" without much effort on your part

5:30 PM

there is nothing to say an imaginary character cannot do the same in waking life

Is there people that "clearly see" tulpa in "real world" ? I mean : Do you see their form in the physical world (like a real person/thing) ? At the same level of detail as "common physical reality" ?

i don't know what you mean by common physical reality, but some people are able to impose their tulpas some people are able to do that without having tulpas, in certain communities it's called "prophantasia"

Some people can but its pretty rare

I'm questioning if my tulpa is actually a tulpa or if im just faking it somehow I'm about 1-2 weeks in from when I first started, and I can already sorta hear my tulpa, but that's only when I'm consciously thinking of him. I'm concerned if I'm just always 'parroting' him instead of letting him think for himself. also, his voice sounds almost exactly like mine, and Im not sure if that's normal? I tried to give him a different voice but it always defaults back to mine. srry if this sounds a little dumb, I'm just very confused rn.

@✩* Jimmy / Grian [🌿🧭] - jump it happens to my host

8:59 PM

it's completely normal

So, if I want my tulpa to develop, then letting her speak is the way to go? And she can just freely speak here?

yes that's it

I see. Thank you.

So, my host and I have been looking a lot into this tulpa stuff and both of us are wondering why one would make multiple tulpas?

Tewi: Just if doing so sounds good to both of you. Plenty of hosts and tulpas are happy with just the two of them, and creating any more tulpas than 1 starts to divide the amount of attention that any headmate can receive. IE, with 10 tulpas you will likely never have as much time dedicated to an individual tulpa as with only 1. (edited)

9:49 PM

For us, my host thought Lucilyn would complement the ~energy our system had, being a lot more energetic and joyful than the rest of us. And she definitely did, to the point that we now have a sort of "family" feeling that we definitely did not before.

9:49 PM

But, tulpa and host should be able to decide together whether having another tulpa in the system would be overall desirable or not.

I see, okay. That's pretty interesting, thank you for the answer!

So, my host and I have been looking a lot into this tulpa stuff and both of us are wondering why one would make multiple tulpas?

@Kislia (@Marmot) - jump some people like to speedrun tulpamancy

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

So, my host and I have been looking a lot into this tulpa stuff and both of us are wondering why one would make multiple tulpas?

@Kislia (@Marmot) - jump some people like to speedrun tulpamancy

LOL

10:05 PM

Thats a good explanation!

Kislia

So, my host and I have been looking a lot into this tulpa stuff and both of us are wondering why one would make multiple tulpas?

hello Kislia! My own system ended up with multiple tulpas in the exact same way that my host ended up with his first tulpa; accidentally! I think the reason for making multiple tulpas can be the same as the reason for making one tulpa... the opportunity to feel or think in a different way to before. That's my perspective on why someone might make multiple tulpas from the point of view of someone from a system made up entirely of tulpas that just sort of spontaneously appeared.

I never considered that honestly. Having a lot of prespectives to pull from can probably give you insight you'd never see otherwise.

Kislia

I never considered that honestly. Having a lot of prespectives to pull from can probably give you insight you'd never see otherwise.

People have their personal reasons and probably each one is different. As for us, each of us was an experiment, katie was just to see if tulpa creation could actually work and i was created to see how personality modeling works.

Kislia

I never considered that honestly. Having a lot of prespectives to pull from can probably give you insight you'd never see otherwise.

Being free to think in a different way can be really useful. Tulpas aren't required for someone to do this, but if speaking to a tulpa has become intuitive, then having more tulpas around to consider more perspectives can also feel intuitive and be part of why someone would decide to have multiple tulpas.

12:36 AM

With a host and single tulpa setup (system of 2), there is access to the dynamic between the host and tulpa, which can be really rewarding as soon as you add even one more headmate (system of 3), suddenly you have access to the dynamics between tulpa 2 and the host, as well as between tulpa 1 and tulpa 2, and even the dynamic of all three interacting with each other each additional headmate adds the possibility for more relationship dynamics (edited)

12:37 AM

For some people, this can be really rewarding and/or just something that brings them joy.

So the host isn't always needed for the interaction so much when multiple tulpas are around.

1:06 AM

Am I understanding that correctly?

yeh, I can talk to any other headmates without my host being around at all ^w^

1:07 AM

(And I can just do things by myself without my host around, too)

Perhaps something for us to consider later, I suppose.

So the host isn't always needed for the interaction so much when multiple tulpas are around.

@Kislia (@Marmot) - jump tulpas are a bit like cats, if you get two you can leave them at home and they will just play with each other without the owner being at home, so they don't get bored

Does the host ever pick up on that, or do they just like talk someone in the back of the host's mind?

in tulpamancy you can't really hide anything from each other

1:54 AM

unless dissociative disorders are involved

1:54 AM

so yeah they are likely to pick up on that all the time

Hi, I'm still learning about wonderlands and not quite understanding the mechanics. If anyone knows the answer to any of these, I'd appreciate it

srry Im still learning discord will type in a sec (edited)

Hello, I can help

Thank you Yuka! Ok so firstly, I've read that you can view the wonderland in first-person; I suppose this would mean the host and tulpa are seeing different images. How does that work? If the tulpa's form is walking toward the host in first person, smiling, then who visualizes the smiling face, host or tulpa? Also, are the host and tulpa thinking at the same time? Sorry if this is just me being dumb and misunderstanding xD

The way it generally works is the brain has one pov (maybe you have hyperphantasia and aren't limited by this but for most), so you can imagine yourself in first person looking at your tulpa. You can interact like that, or you can "pass" the pov over to them so they can imagine stuff in their pov. Ooor, you can visualize everything in 3rd person so that sort of equals things out

Thank you! That makes sense. I had one more question regarding the wonderland but also in general, can a host and tulpa hear each other's thoughts that are not intentionally communicated to each other through the mindvoice?

Thoughts you or your tulpa have will be perceived by your brain's consciousness, since you share a brain, you share this consciousness too. So you'll hear each others thoughts, yeah

good to know! thanks so much

Also, some people claim their tulpas/headmates have separate pov and separate thoughts they can't hear. This kind of claim is hard to verify, and it can cause doubt and confusion (people feeling like they're not doing their tulpamancy well enough for example). Some who assumed their tulpas had separate pov/thoughts discovered this wasn't true when they investigated their experiences. I'm just mentioning this because you'll come across all sorts of views out there

Oh, ok, is that related to memory separation or parallel processing? Or I apologize if those are totally unrelated

4:35 AM

I promise I've been reading the guides; I just get confused xD

Uh, I guess it could be both? There are a lot of terms and labels Basically, think about it like, "Is a human being capable of _?" Making a tulpa doesn't give you super powers, it doesn't double your brain's processing

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Got it. Thank you for taking the time to write all this

np

Is the tulpa community dwindeling? (edited)

Not really, just this server for the most part

G'day

2:58 PM

Was wondering if anyone had some advice on getting a tulpa to find its form and independent voice

Rusty

Was wondering if anyone had some advice on getting a tulpa to find its form and independent voice

Are they vocal?

Yuka

Are they vocal?

They try to be. It's just hard to discern it from my own voice

Have they taken some time to explore what form they want? It doesn't really make sense to force them to choose any more than giving them a form imo

Fair enough, I suppose I haven't been giving them time to develop themselves. I think it's mostly just me worrying they won't come into existence

The most important thing at that stage is just spending time with them, interacting with them

Battle to the death

3:40 PM

Away with you imposter

Yesterday, a voice said to me "if it's like this, I don't want to be your tulpa". What do you think ?